I've come to find that everyone else is faking it, or at the very least winging it. There are no authorities on anything, only those who speak louder. So I'm off to find my confidence. Once I have that, everything will fall into place.
"Too many hands on my time
Too many feelings
Too many things on my mind
When I leave, I don't know what I'm hoping to find
And when I leave, I don't know what I'm leaving behind"
—Rush, The Analog Kid